My Grandma’s cook Book

Specials of ma grand mother.

A grandma’s cookbook deserves warm, nostalgic, and truly special dishes—ones that reflect tradition, love, and timeless taste. Here’s a list of special Indian dishes that are perfect for inclusion in a “Grandma’s Cookbook”—along with a short emotional description for each, like you’d find in a handwritten family recipe book.


Grandma’s Special Cookbook – Treasured Indian Recipes

1. Aloo Paratha (Stuffed Potato Flatbread)

For Dough:

  • 2 cups whole wheat flour (atta)
  • 1/2 tsp salt
  • Water (as needed)
  • 1 tsp oil (optional)

For Filling:

  • 3 medium potatoes (boiled & mashed)
  • 1–2 green chilies (finely chopped)
  • 1 tsp grated ginger
  • 1/2 tsp cumin seeds
  • 1/2 tsp amchur (dry mango powder) or a squeeze of lemon
  • 1/2 tsp garam masala
  • 1/2 tsp red chili powder (optional)
  • 2 tbsp chopped coriander leaves
  • Salt to taste

For Cooking:

  • Ghee or oil for frying

Step 1: Make the Dough

  1. In a large bowl, mix flour and salt.
  2. Slowly add water and knead until smooth and soft.
  3. Cover with a damp cloth and let it rest for 20–30 minutes.

Step 2: Prepare the Filling

  1. Peel and mash the boiled potatoes in a wide bowl.
  2. Add all filling ingredients: green chilies, ginger, cumin, spices, and salt.
  3. Mix well. Taste and adjust spice if needed.

Step 3: Assemble the Parathas

  1. Divide dough and filling into equal portions (about 6–8 balls).
  2. Roll one dough ball into a small disc.
  3. Place a portion of filling in the center, gather the edges, and pinch to seal.
  4. Gently flatten and roll out into a 6–8 inch paratha. Use flour to prevent sticking.

Step 4: Cook the Paratha

  1. Heat a tawa or flat pan on medium flame.
  2. Place the rolled paratha on it. When you see bubbles, flip it.
  3. Apply ghee/oil, cook both sides until golden and crisp.

🥄 Serving Suggestions

  • A dollop of homemade butter or white makkhan (a must!)
  • Side of tangy mango pickle or garlic chutney
  • A bowl of plain curd or lassi to cool the spice


2. Moong Dal Halwa

Absolutely! Here’s a detailed, warm, and traditional recipe for Moong Dal Halwa — a rich, decadent Indian dessert that’s often made for festivals, weddings, and special family occasions. Perfect for your Grandma’s Cookbook!




🥣 Ingredients

  • 1 cup yellow moong dal (split yellow gram)
  • 3 cups whole milk (or water, but milk gives richness)
  • 1 cup sugar (adjust to taste)
  • 1 cup ghee (clarified butter)
  • 6-8 green cardamom pods (crushed or powdered)
  • 10-12 cashews (halved)
  • 10-12 almonds (sliced)
  • A pinch of saffron strands (optional, for color & aroma)
  • 2 tbsp rose water or kewra water (optional, for fragrance)

👩‍🍳 Step-by-Step Instructions

Step 1: Prepare the Dal

  1. Wash the moong dal thoroughly until water runs clear.
  2. Soak the dal in water for about 2 hours (helps soften and roast evenly).
  3. Drain and dry the dal completely using a kitchen towel or air-dry for 20 minutes.

Step 2: Roast the Dal

  1. Heat 1/2 cup ghee in a heavy-bottomed pan on low-medium flame.
  2. Add the dried moong dal.
  3. Roast, stirring continuously to prevent burning, until the dal turns golden brown and aromatic (this takes around 20-30 minutes).
  4. Be patient; this step builds the halwa’s signature nutty flavor.

Step 3: Cook the Dal with Milk

  1. Once roasted, carefully add the milk to the pan (it may splutter).
  2. Stir well and cook on medium flame, stirring often.
  3. The mixture will thicken as the dal absorbs milk; keep stirring to avoid lumps and sticking.
  4. Cook until the dal is completely soft and the mixture thickens.

Step 4: Add Sugar and Cardamom

  1. Add the sugar and crushed cardamom.
  2. Stir well; sugar will dissolve, and the mixture will loosen a bit.
  3. Cook until the mixture thickens again, stirring continuously.

Step 5: Final Step — Ghee and Nuts

  1. Add the remaining 1/2 cup ghee little by little while stirring.
  2. Fry the nuts (cashews and almonds) in a small pan with a spoon of ghee until golden.
  3. Add nuts and saffron strands to the halwa.
  4. Stir for a few more minutes until ghee separates from the halwa, and it looks glossy and rich.

Step 6: Add Fragrance


🍽️ Serving Suggestions

  • Serve warm in small bowls or on a leaf plate (traditional!).
  • Garnish with extra nuts or edible silver foil (varak) for special occasions.
  • Pairs beautifully with a glass of warm milk or masala chai.

📝 Grandma’s Tips

  • Always roast dal slowly and patiently — rushing burns it.
  • Use fresh ghee for the best aroma.
  • Keep stirring continuously — it’s a labor of love!
  • The halwa thickens as it cools — serve warm for soft texture.


3. Gutti Vankaya Curry (Stuffed Brinjal)


🥄 Ingredients

For the Brinjals:

  • 12 small tender brinjals (eggplants)
  • 2 tbsp oil (for cooking)

For the Stuffing:

  • 1/2 cup roasted peanuts
  • 1/4 cup grated fresh coconut (optional but traditional)
  • 2 tbsp sesame seeds
  • 3-4 dried red chilies (adjust to taste)
  • 1 tsp cumin seeds
  • 1 tsp coriander seeds
  • 1/2 tsp fennel seeds (optional)
  • 1/2 tsp turmeric powder
  • 1 tbsp tamarind paste (or soaked tamarind pulp)
  • Salt to taste
  • A pinch of asafoetida (hing)
  • 1 tsp jaggery or sugar (balances tanginess)

For Tempering:

  • 2 tbsp oil
  • 1 tsp mustard seeds
  • A few curry leaves

👩‍🍳 Step-by-Step Instructions

Step 1: Prepare the Brinjals

  1. Wash brinjals, remove the stem but keep the brinjal whole.
  2. Make 2-3 deep slits in each brinjal, careful not to cut through completely — these slits will hold the stuffing.

Step 2: Make the Stuffing

  1. Dry roast peanuts, sesame seeds, cumin seeds, coriander seeds, fennel seeds, and dried red chilies until aromatic.
  2. Grind the roasted mixture coarsely along with grated coconut, turmeric, tamarind paste, salt, jaggery, and asafoetida into a thick paste. Add a little water if needed.

Step 3: Stuff the Brinjals

  1. Carefully stuff each brinjal with the prepared masala paste, pressing it into the slits.
  2. Set aside the stuffed brinjals.

Step 4: Cook the Curry

  1. Heat oil in a deep pan or kadai.
  2. Add mustard seeds; when they splutter, add curry leaves.
  3. Gently place stuffed brinjals in the pan.
  4. Cover and cook on low flame, turning occasionally to cook evenly on all sides.
  5. Add a little water if needed to avoid burning and create some gravy.
  6. Cook till brinjals are soft and cooked through (about 20-25 minutes).

🍽️ Serving Suggestions

  • Serve hot with steamed rice and a dollop of ghee.
  • Pairs well with simple dal and rasam for a traditional Andhra meal.

📝 Grandma’s Tips

  • Choose small, tender brinjals — they’re easier to stuff and cook evenly.
  • Roasting spices fresh makes all the difference in flavor.
  • Cook slow and steady; rushing can break the brinjals.
  • The tamarind and jaggery balance the spicy and tangy notes perfectly.


4. JOLAD ROTTI WITH PALYAere’s a complete traditional North Karnataka-style and Palya (vegetable stir-fry)


📝 Ingredients:

  • Jowar flour (sorghum flour) – 1½ cups
  • Water – ~1 cup (boiled)
  • Salt – ¼ tsp (optional)
  • Dry flour – for dusting and rolling

👩‍🍳 Instructions:

🔸 Step 1: Boil Water

  • Boil about 1 cup of water in a saucepan with a pinch of salt.
  • Turn off the heat and add jowar flour gradually while stirring continuously to avoid lumps.

🔸 Step 2: Mix and Rest

  • Mix until it comes together into a dough-like mass.
  • Cover with a lid and let it rest for 5–10 minutes (to cool slightly and absorb moisture).

🔸 Step 3: Knead the Dough

  • Once slightly cool, knead it into a soft, pliable dough.
  • If it’s sticky, sprinkle some more flour. If it’s dry, add a few drops of warm water.

🔸 Step 4: Roll the Rotis

  • Take a ball-sized portion of dough.
  • Dust your rolling surface with jowar flour and pat/roll it into a thin roti using your hands or a rolling pin.
  • Jowar dough can be tricky – gently flatten it using your palms if you can’t roll it.

🔸 Step 5: Cook the Roti

  • Heat a tawa (griddle) until hot.
  • Cook the roti on one side till you see bubbles, then flip.
  • Press gently with a cloth or spatula to puff it slightly.
  • Cook both sides until brown spots appear.

📝 Tip: Traditional jolad rotti is cooked on wood fire and puffed directly. You can mimic puffing on gas flame for softer rotis.


Palya (Simple Vegetable Stir-Fry)

You can pair jolad rotti with any seasonal vegetable palya. Here’s a basic cabbage palya recipe (you can substitute cabbage with beans, carrots, or spinach).


📝 Ingredients:

  • Cabbage (shredded) – 2 cups
  • Oil – 2 tsp
  • Mustard seeds – 1 tsp
  • Cumin seeds – ½ tsp
  • Chana dal – 1 tsp
  • Urad dal – 1 tsp
  • Green chilies – 2, slit
  • Dry red chili – 1 (optional)
  • Curry leaves – 1 sprig
  • Hing (asafoetida) – a pinch
  • Grated coconut – 2 tbsp
  • Turmeric powder – ¼ tsp
  • Salt – to taste
  • Coriander leaves – for garnish
  • Lemon juice – optional

👩‍🍳 Instructions:

  1. Heat oil in a pan. Add mustard seeds and let them splutter.
  2. Add cumin, chana dal, urad dal – sauté till golden.
  3. Add green chilies, red chili, curry leaves, and a pinch of hing.
  4. Add shredded cabbage, turmeric, and salt. Mix well.
  5. Cover and cook on low flame until cabbage is tender (~8–10 mins).
  6. Add grated coconut and cook for 2 more minutes.
  7. Garnish with coriander leaves. Squeeze a little lemon juice if desired.

🥗 Serving Suggestion:

Serve jolad rotti hot with:

  • Cabbage palya or any seasonal vegetable
  • Raw onion slices and green chili
  • Yogurt or curd
  • Optional: chutney pudi, groundnut chutney, or pickle


5. METHI PARATA

🌿 Methi Paratha Recipe (Fenugreek Flatbread)

For the Dough:

  • 2 cups whole wheat flour (atta)
  • 1 to 1.5 cups fresh methi leaves (fenugreek leaves), finely chopped
  • 1–2 green chilies, finely chopped (optional, for spice)
  • 1 tsp grated ginger
  • ½ tsp turmeric powder
  • ½ tsp red chili powder
  • ½ tsp cumin seeds or ajwain (carom seeds)
  • Salt to taste
  • 1 tbsp oil or ghee
  • Water (as needed to knead the dough)

For Rolling & Cooking:

  • Whole wheat flour (for dusting)
  • Ghee or oil (for roasting)

🥣 Preparation Steps

1. Prepare the Methi Leaves

  • Wash the methi leaves thoroughly in water 2-3 times to remove all dirt.
  • Drain well and finely chop them.
  • Optional: Sprinkle a little salt on chopped methi and leave for 10 minutes, then squeeze out the excess water to reduce bitterness.

2. Make the Dough

  • In a large mixing bowl, add:
    • Whole wheat flour
    • Chopped methi leaves
    • Green chilies
    • Grated ginger
    • Turmeric powder
    • Red chili powder
    • Cumin or carom seeds
    • Salt
  • Mix everything well.
  • Add 1 tbsp oil and mix again.
  • Gradually add water and knead into a soft, smooth dough.
  • Cover and let it rest for 15–20 minutes.

3. Roll the Parathas

  • Divide the dough into equal-sized balls.
  • Roll each ball in dry flour, then flatten it and roll into a circle (about 6–7 inches wide).
  • Use more flour while rolling if it sticks.

4. Cook the Parathas

  • Heat a tawa (griddle) on medium-high.
  • Place one rolled paratha on the hot tawa.
  • Cook for 30–40 seconds or until bubbles appear.
  • Flip and apply ghee/oil on the top side.
  • Flip again and apply ghee/oil on the other side.
  • Press gently with a spatula and cook until both sides are golden brown with some dark spots.
  • Repeat for all parathas.


6. Khichdi with Ghee


7. Thepla & Chhundo (Gujarati Travel Combo)

Wrapped in banana leaves for train journeys.

“Ba made stacks of these before every trip. Sweet mango pickle on the side made us smile between stops.”


8. Thayir Sadam (Curd Rice with Tempering)

Soothing soul food from the South.

“Patti’s touch of mustard seeds and curry leaves made the curd rice divine. She fed us with her hands when we refused to eat.”


9. Besan Ladoo

Golden balls of joy.

“She rolled them while telling us stories. The ghee smell lingered in the house for hours.”


10. Puran Poli

Maharashtrian New Year ritual.

“The jaggery would melt in your mouth, and she’d say, ‘Sweet inside, like you must be to others

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